Xperience It

Small is BIG!

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I love Maraget Mead’s quote: “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful and committed people can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.”

In 1998, my belief in the power of small groups led to the vision of building a unique retreat destination for small groups in the D.C. Metropolitan area.  I wanted to create a space that was immersed in nature that was different from what hotels or corporate-type spaces offered. As a trainer/facilitator, my experience was that most spaces lacked the intangible “energy” and “spirit” – an essence that brings out the best in people and contributes to meaningful, creative, and lasting group work. Additonally, I thought that one way I could contribute to the many small groups doing BIG things was to make this type of unique and intimate space not just available, but afordable and easy to take advantage of. So, ultimately, it was a way to serve the people I love and the causes they love (which I often share also but can’t necessarily involve or devote myself to directly), and create a space where I can play/grow personally and professionally.  ”Build it, and they will come” was my business plan and I started looking for land and figuring out how to finance it, which took almost four years.

In 2002, I found 20-acres of undeveloped mountaintop land in Berkeley Springs, WV located two miles from Cacapon state park and 12 miles from Berkeley Springs in the historic town also known ”Bath” — and referred to as “the Nation’s first Spa.” That year and part of 2003 involved working out the design and the next thing I knew, ”The Ridge” started construction in May…OMG!  Between 2003 ande 2006 there were steps, stages and a series of incredible highs and lows – all more  extreme and severe than I could have ever imagined. And all impossible for me to describe here or attempt to put into words. Suffice it to say — it was a bad stretch for the Ol’ Cliffster.

However, slowly but surely, ”The Ridge” neared completion in 2006 and in that year, I met Dr. Barry Johnson, author of several books, including: “Polarity Management: How to Identify and Manage Unsolvable Problems.” Aside from developing a wonderful friendship and becomming part of an amazing community, I learned about a theory, tool and process that helped me articulate more effectively and apply more practically, an area of deep interest and passion around YIN/YANG energy and Taoist philosophy. I knew immediately that I would promote Barry’s life work and mission to “Improve the quality of life on the planet by helping individuals, families, organizations, and nations identify and manage unsolvable problems (manage polarities).” I also knew that The Ridge would somehow play a role in that. Around the same time, a friend and colleague, Susan Waldman (branding guru at Zilyen) shared with me that ”Kayser Ridge” would be more effective from a branding perspective than just “The Ridge.” I struggled with that suggestion on several levels. However, my grandfather, Willard Kayser, Sr. had passed away in late 2007 and as I reflected on that suggestion, it made sense to call it “Kayser Ridge” as a testament to him and his memory. As retreats at Kayser Ridge emphasized physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being (and Polarity Management training became a staple offering), we started referring to it as  ”Kayser Ridge Retreat & Learning Center.”  

The next thing I knew, it was 2008 and we were lining-up events, programs, and training. 2009 and 2010 included creating this website and the logo with the help  of Dawn Coleman, retreat-coordinator-person extraordinairre, and web designer, Sean Smith. Dawn has added so much in the way of atmosphere, environment, and just a wonderful presence and energy. If you would have told me between 2003 – 2006 that Kayser Ridge Retreat & Learning Center would be where it is and would have come so far, I would have had serious concerns about your sanity. How did it happen? The answer is — a small group of thoughtful and committed people believed. They believed it could happen, they believed in me, and they contributed amazing talents, skills, and energy in a wide variety of unique and important ways. There are too many to mention for such a post, but let me name a few:

• Family/friends (you know who you are…)
• Hemlock Overlook Center for Outdoor Experiential Education (now the EDGE, Mason Center for Team and Organizational Learning)
• Marie Moore, Kyle Gregg, Krista Schmidt
• Jack Scheuerermann, (www.estreetlaw.com)
• Zilyen Archetypal Branding — Susan Waldman and Pete Beebe  (www.zilyen.com)
• The Begumpura group, and especially Sartaj Alag
• Sean Smith web design
• My wonderful partner Tracy Roman
• Marie Gilson and Hella Meivers
• Holly Thompson and Dawn Coleman
• Jody Gill and Mike at Timber Ridge Grocery — THE BEST BBQ IN THE WORLD…
• Maryjane Bullen and Richard Barrett
• Amy Foster, Siddharth Shah, Adam Hood
• Barry Johnson and my friends and colleagues in the Polarity Management Community and Mastery Group — especially Beena Sharma
• Dr. Susanne Cook-Greuter and Jane Gray
• The Georgetown University Executive Coaching Program
• Extraordinary Coaches: Kate Ebner, Betty George, Chris Wahl, Kelly Lewis, Beth Raps, PhD, and Patricia Deveccio (among other informal coaches and classmates–you know who you are!)
• The AU/NTL OD Master’s community, Class 50, NTL Institute, and the Founders House at Bethel, Maine
• The Gestalt Community — The Gestalt Institute of Cleveland
• Laura George and The Oracle Institute
• BB&T and King Money Management, Inc.
• Cairns
• FOXes (Friends of Xperience LLC, who are “frequent flyers” who do retreats)
• Willard C. Kayser, Sr. – the namesake of Kayser Ridge, who passed away in October of 2007 — two days after the first retreat. He was described by many who knew him well as a “living embodiment of Love” and epitomized values of integrity, character, kindness, generosity, honesty, and good humor. As mentioned, Kayser Ridge Retreat & Learning Center bears his name (we used to call it “The Ridge”) and is intended as a testament to his spirit and wonderful essence. Many guests and visitors talk about a wonderful spirit that envelops Kayser Ridge and helps support the work of individuals, teams, and groups seeking to embody their own values and to live them out. That’s all part of both the tangible and intangible “IT” that is part of the experience. My grandfather never saw the completed Kayser Ridge, but he was able to visit just after construction began. It was the fall, which was his favorite. 

There is no place I would rather be in the fall then Kayser Ridge Retreat & Learning Center.

I wish you the very best and hope you will consider Kayser Ridge Retreat & Learning Center for your next retreat! Also, please visit Kayser Ridge on Facebook  and become a fan!

Cliff Kayser