Wiser Decisions2026-03-17T17:40:16-04:00

Series Introduction: Wiser Decisions

By |March 10th, 2026|Artificial Intelligence, Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, The Polarity Assessment™, Wiser Decisions|

Polarity Partnerships has never been a one-person endeavor. Over the past two decades, I’ve had the privilege of building this work alongside a wide circle of gifted partners and colleagues, each shaping how we teach, consult, and think about interdependent tensions in their own way. One of those partnerships reaches [...]

Artificial Intelligence: Got Human? On Being Watchers & Guiders of AI & Humans

By |March 13th, 2026|Artificial Intelligence, Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, The Polarity Assessment™, Wiser Decisions|

I recently heard something that made me smile at first and then linger long enough that I sat down to write this. When some AI systems interact internally, they sometimes refer to humans with a particular word. Watchers. It is a curious label. If one human described another that way [...]

Religion: When Either/Or Thinking to the neglect of Both/And Thinking by Gets Backed by God

By |March 16th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

There’s a pattern that shows up across religions, politics, organizations, and even families—anywhere belief and power begin reinforcing one another. Something complex and deeply human gradually gets simplified into a choice. Not simply a preference, but the right choice. Once that happens, everything outside that choice starts looking less like [...]

Environment: Can We Have a Word?

By |March 18th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

One word could change our trajectory. “And.” Every generation inherits problems it didn’t personally create. Some inherit wars. Some inherit economic breakdown. Some inherit institutions that no longer work the way anyone hoped they would. The generation coming of age right now has inherited something different. They have inherited a [...]

Trust & Interdependence: Honoring Jack Gibb

By |April 6th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

There’s a tendency—especially in leadership circles—to treat trust as a cultural layer that sits downstream from the “real work” of organizations. Strategy first. Execution first. Results first. Trust becomes something discussed afterward, usually once strain, disengagement, fragmentation, or burnout begin surfacing. That framing has never held up particularly well once [...]

MASCULINE AND FEMININE: THE POLARITY LEADERSHIP CAN NO LONGER IGNORE

By |April 7th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

I asked three different AI systems to help me think through a complex organizational challenge last month. Every response gave me some version of a decision tree, prioritization matrix, implementation sequence, or action plan. Not one asked how the people involved were experiencing the change. Not one suggested slowing down [...]

Helping People See Multarities in Family Business: SPOTLIGHT on Cathy Carroll

By |April 13th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

Family businesses are a defining force in the economy. They span everything from corner stores to multi-billion-dollar enterprises, woven into the fabric of communities, regions, and industries. Scale alone doesn’t capture what makes them matter, though. They carry something most organizations don’t: memory that extends backward through generations and forward [...]

Coaching: A Core Competency in an AI-Inhabited World

By |May 1st, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

Strengthening uniquely human capacities in accelerating systems Artificial intelligence is rapidly becoming one of the great accelerants in human history. Speed accelerates. Information accelerates. Production accelerates. Analysis accelerates. Even imitation accelerates. A question appears and within seconds a polished response arrives carrying the tone of certainty, coherence, and authority. The [...]

Human Prompts: The Human Skills Required for Wiser Decisions in the AI Era

By |May 14th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

Strengthening uniquely human capacities in accelerating systems I’ve spent much of my professional life working across what initially appeared to be very different domains: executive coaching, team coaching, organization development, polarity thinking, leadership development, democracy work, systems thinking, and more recently the implications of artificial intelligence. For years I treated [...]

Richard Rohr’s Multarity Brilliance: Masterfully Creating Capacity for “ANDs”

By |May 26th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

Richard Rohr has spent decades helping people recognize something many leaders, organizations, religious communities, and societies are now experiencing in real time: human beings struggle when they try to force living systems into single answers. That struggle is accelerating. You can feel it almost everywhere now. Leaders demanding certainty when [...]

Pope Leo and the AI Mirror: Capability AND Human Formation in the Age of Artificial Intelligence

By |May 26th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

In 1891, Pope Leo XIII became one of the defining moral voices of the Industrial Revolution. His encyclical Rerum Novarum issued a warning that still resonates today: when technological and economic transformation outpaces human dignity, moral formation, and institutional accountability, the people least protected by those systems absorb the cost. [...]

The Infinity Machine & The Human Coach: The “Precious Window” Coaches Need to Hold as Leaders Navigate AI’s Defining Tensions

By |July 14th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

I have been living inside an infinity symbol for years without fully noticing it. It sits at the center of the Cliff'sNOTES logo — the loop Barry Johnson and the Polarity Thinking community have used for decades to depict two interdependent poles, circling each other endlessly, neither one ever finally [...]

“Tell Me I’m Wrong About Immigration.”: The response I’m ready to share.

By |July 22nd, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

A colleague from the Polarity Thinking community recently sent me a Fox News opinion piece with a simple note attached: “Thought you’d find this interesting.” I did. I’ve had this conversation before. Many times. The article could have come just as easily from several of my fraternity brothers from my [...]

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