Cliff’s Notes

High-leverage Action Steps in the relationship between Self And Other: The “Rogerian Multarity”: Unconditional Positive Regard, Empathy, and Congruence

By Cliff Kayser|2023-05-25T15:21:02-04:00May 25th, 2023|Multarities, Polarity Thinking|

NOTE: From Carl Rogers: On Becoming a Person (1961), Chapter 14. The “Rogerian triad” was created for the therapeutic relationship. However, it can be useful for Coaches, the Self And Other relationship, and one’s relationship w/“Self.” A “Multarity” is an interdependency of more than two. (See Figure, below): Figure There are three points in the “relationship triangle” [...]

The Mind Or Body Origin of Emotions Debate, “Solved!”

By Cliff Kayser|2023-05-25T15:11:24-04:00May 3rd, 2023|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking|

Walter Cannon suggested emotions originate in the brain and work their way into the body. William James theorized emotions originate in the body, get perceived in the brain, and we form stories to explain them. Welcome to the Cannon-James debate, ya’ll! Summaries of the two points of view appear at the end of this note, [...]

Why Leaders Need To Learn To Be Able To Handle Ambiguity

By Cliff Kayser|2023-01-10T17:40:08-05:00January 10th, 2023|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Polarity Thinking and Problem-solving Thinking|

(Cliff Kayser of Polarity Partnerships, LLC is provides this summary w/additions from an August article in FORBES by Roger Trap.) So complex is the modern business environment that leaders are confronting paradoxes on a regular basis. They want to protect their core business at the same time as innovating for the future; they are looking [...]

Hate Friends’ or Colleagues’ POVs? Here’s the Secret to Getting Along

By Cliff Kayser|2023-01-10T17:36:47-05:00January 1st, 2023|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, The Polarity Assessment™|

(Cliff Kayser of Polarity Partnerships, LLC provides this summary w/additions from an August 2022 article that appeared in NEWSWEEK by colleagues Marianne Lewis and Wendy Smith.) Today's world is becoming increasingly fractured. Confirmation bias abounds where people stay within safe circles of friends and colleagues who agree with them, and the opinions they hear mirror [...]

Hybrid work isn’t working: Here’s a better approach

By Cliff Kayser|2023-01-10T17:35:57-05:00December 27th, 2022|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, The Polarity Assessment™|

(Cliff Kayser of Polarity Partnerships, LLC provides this summary w/additions from an August 2022 article in FastCompany by colleagues Marianne Lewis and Wendy Smith.) How can adopting ‘both/and thinking’ to move beyond a simple yet often destructive formula and develop more creative and productive solutions. While we want the best of home and work, too [...]

Applicable excerpts from the book, “Both/And Leadership: Embracing Creative Tensions to Solve Your Toughest Problems”

By Cliff Kayser|2022-09-11T08:11:08-04:00September 11th, 2022|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking|

The rock stars of paradox research, Wendy Smith and Marianne Lewis, just released their book, “Both/And Leadership: Embracing Creative Tensions to Solve Your Toughest Problems” in which they say early-on: From page 11: We draw from Eastern philosophy, such as that set forth by Lao Tzu in the Tao Te Ching and from Western philosophy, [...]

Team Tony Cancer Foundation wins Small Business Award

By Lori Kayser|2021-07-14T16:24:52-04:00July 14th, 2021|Polarity Thinking|

The following is an excerpt from a piece written in the Herald-Tribune by Ernest “Doc” Werlin. You can find the full article here. The Greater Sarasota Chamber of Commerce has awarded Team Tony Cancer Foundation the Small Business of the Year Award. For many years, I have been actively involved with Team Tony, CTAC (Coming Together [...]

Summary: “Think Again” by Adam Grant

By Cliff Kayser|2021-05-12T08:22:47-04:00May 12th, 2021|Polarity Thinking|

Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don’t Know by Adam Grant (2021) is a new addition to the growing body of mainstream books about mental blindspots, cognitive biases, and thinking errors. Every individual possesses cognitive tools and accumulated knowledge that they regularly rely upon. But we rarely question or consider this knowledge which includes [...]

Empowerment In a Difficult Time

By Cliff Kayser|2021-01-09T11:41:36-05:00January 9th, 2021|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking|

A friend asked me for Polarity Maps that might be helpful in this difficult time. I’m sharing several that are part of a chapter for the Volume 2 of “And” Making a Difference by Leveraging Polarity, Paradox or Dilemma (which hasn’t been published and the attached hasn’t been edited for publication, FYI). Technically, I shouldn’t [...]

Thoughts from Barry Johnson on how Polarity Thinking can save lives, strengthen the economy, and speed the national recovery

By Cliff Kayser|2020-06-04T13:01:24-04:00June 4th, 2020|Polarity Thinking|

In the following two articles, Barry Johnson discusses: Individual Freedom And The Common Good Both are essential in the fight against COVID-19 for our recovery and our future. AND how we can go about: Winning On Two Fronts – Health And Economy Polarity Thinking can save lives, strengthen the economy, and speed the national recovery. [...]