There’s an old Chinese story about a farmer whose livelihood depends on a single horse. One day the horse runs away. The neighbors stop by and say, “That’s bad.” The farmer replies, “Maybe.” A few days later the horse returns—bringing several wild horses with it. The neighbors return and say, “That’s [...]
One word could change our trajectory. “And.” Every generation inherits problems it didn’t personally create. Some inherit wars. Some inherit economic breakdown. Some inherit institutions that no longer work the way anyone hoped they would. The generation coming of age right now has inherited something different. They have inherited a planetary system sending increasingly unmistakable signals [...]
See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of Chapter 66 of the Tao Te Ching (Unpublished): Streams and rivers flow down to valleys. Valleys hold the sea by staying low. Those who [...]
There’s a pattern that shows up across religions, politics, organizations, and even families—anywhere belief and power begin reinforcing one another. Something complex and deeply human gradually gets simplified into a choice. Not simply a preference, but the right choice. Once that happens, everything outside that choice starts looking less like a difference in perspective and more [...]
I recently heard something that made me smile at first and then linger long enough that I sat down to write this. When some AI systems interact internally, they sometimes refer to humans with a particular word. Watchers. It is a curious label. If one human described another that way — “Oh, that person’s a Watcher” [...]
After twenty years working with Polarity Thinking, one word finally helped me explain why it works: metatheory. A metatheory isn’t another model or framework. It’s the lens behind the lens — the way of seeing that shapes how we understand everything else. In that sense, the usefulness of Polarity Thinking is not simply that it offers [...]
See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of the Tao Te Ching, Chapter 48 (Unpublished): Being in learning each day, There is accumulation. Being in It each day, There is distribution. In [...]
Polarity Partnerships has never been a one-person endeavor. Over the past two decades, I’ve had the privilege of building this work alongside a wide circle of gifted partners and colleagues, each shaping how we teach, consult, and think about interdependent tensions in their own way. One of those partnerships reaches back to the very beginning of [...]
See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of the Tao Te Ching, Chapter 36 (Unpublished): Reduction, relies on expansion. Illumination, depends on hidden. Risen, comes from ruin. Taken, returns as given. What [...]
See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of the Tao Te Ching, Chapter 64 (Unpublished): What’s recent is easily corrected. What’s brittle is easily shattered. What’s little is easily scattered. Attend early. [...]