Helping People See Multarities in Family Business: SPOTLIGHT on Cathy Carroll

By |2026-07-22T14:01:34-04:00April 13th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

Family businesses are a defining force in the economy. They span everything from corner stores to multi-billion-dollar enterprises, woven into the fabric of communities, regions, and industries. Scale alone doesn’t capture what makes them matter, though. They carry something most organizations don’t: memory that extends backward through generations and forward into futures that haven’t been named [...]

Just Tao It, Chapter 71: Brilliance & Patience

By |2026-07-15T22:32:28-04:00April 10th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Just Tao It, Polarity Thinking|

See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of Chapter 71 of the Tao Te Ching (Unpublished): Seeing that you don’t know is brilliance. Not seeing that you don’t know is blindness. To [...]

MASCULINE AND FEMININE: THE POLARITY LEADERSHIP CAN NO LONGER IGNORE

By |2026-04-26T11:17:33-04:00April 7th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

I asked three different AI systems to help me think through a complex organizational challenge last month. Every response gave me some version of a decision tree, prioritization matrix, implementation sequence, or action plan. Not one asked how the people involved were experiencing the change. Not one suggested slowing down long enough to listen before deciding. [...]

John Kessler’s Multarity Brilliance

By |2026-04-06T20:45:57-04:00April 6th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

There are moments in life when whatever you thought was holding things together simply stops. Not gradually, not politely—just stops. For me, it was a mountain biking accident that fractured my neck at C2 and left me with a traumatic brain injury. The kind of moment where you don’t need a specialist to tell you something [...]

Trust & Interdependence: Honoring Jack Gibb

By |2026-05-07T13:34:20-04:00April 6th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

There’s a tendency—especially in leadership circles—to treat trust as a cultural layer that sits downstream from the “real work” of organizations. Strategy first. Execution first. Results first. Trust becomes something discussed afterward, usually once strain, disengagement, fragmentation, or burnout begin surfacing. That framing has never held up particularly well once you start paying attention to how [...]

Just Tao It, Chapter 76: Strength & Flexibility

By |2026-07-15T22:00:14-04:00April 5th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Just Tao It, Polarity Thinking|

See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of Chapter 76 of the Tao Te Ching (Unpublished): Life comes— soft, supple. Death comes— hard, inflexible. Soft and supple— living. Hard and inflexible— dying. [...]

Just Tao It, Chapter 2: Knowing & Wonder

By |2026-07-15T21:51:11-04:00April 3rd, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Just Tao It, Polarity Thinking|

See the Series Introduction for Just Tao It, Part I: HERE See the Just Tao It Series Introduction Tao/It on-ramp, PART II: HERE See Just Tao It, Chapter 1: HERE From my interpretation of Chapter 2 of the Tao Te Ching (Unpublished): When people see beautiful things, Ugly things arise. When people see good things, Bad things are [...]

HOPE! Strong Floor & No Ceiling (Part I)

By |2026-03-19T13:30:41-04:00March 19th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Freedom and Authority, Human Rights And Communal Obligations, No Ceiling, Oliver Libby, Polarity Thinking, Strong Floor, The Polarity Assessment™, Wiser Decisions|

Some days it’s hard to be hopeful. The scope and scale of polarization and doom-loop thinking about the U.S. and the future can feel like an hourly, daily, monthly assault on the senses. Then a book like Strong Floor, No Ceiling comes out. My intuition sirens flare and my energy returns. A few differently firing synapses, [...]

Democracy: The Only System Built for Interdependence

By |2026-04-07T19:27:39-04:00March 19th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Polarity Thinking, Wiser Decisions|

Winston Churchill once observed that democracy may be the worst form of government—except for all the others that have been tried. It is the kind of line that gets laughs because it lands close enough to the truth to sting a little. Democracy is messy. It is slow. It often looks like argument layered on top [...]

HOPE…Not a Strategy: Strong Floor & No Ceiling, PART II

By |2026-03-19T13:32:24-04:00March 19th, 2026|Both/And Polarity Leveraging, Freedom and Authority, No Ceiling, Polarity Thinking, Strong Floor, Wiser Decisions|

(Part I, "HOPE! Strong Floor, No Ceiling" preceded this Part II.) There is an oft-repeated phrase in the global community of Polarity Thinkers: “Simple, not easy.” Strong Floor AND No Ceiling is a simple idea. It is clear. It is compelling. It resonates across differences in a way that most policy ideas do not. It offers [...]

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